I feel you, tbh as someone who has NextJS as my main tools, it's hard enough to choose Remix or Redwood as a starter project, when I needed backend it's either Django or Spring boot from time to time.

Not really sure when to play around with these new frameworks if it's not giving me enough reason to switch, especially since they're not adopted in big tech companies it makes it harder to justify the usage when I want to build somethjing